There are so many ways and so many interesting tips on how to attract a man. Many sites and books have gained popularity by providing ways and tips on how to attract a man. But here are simple ways and tips on how to realistically get yourself the man you want and you are contented with.
1. Be ready to commit
Unless you are ready to commit you are not yet ready to go out and get yourself that boyfriend you want to have. Getting into a relationship entails preparedness to commit. If you are not ready to commit, then do not even dare to enter into a relationship. Of course you can go out on dates, but just for the fun of it, and maybe for the pleasure of meeting new people.
2. Be single and ready to mingle
Most of the time, one is so determined to find a boyfriend when a person had just broken up. This is not the right time. This does not make you ready to mingle. Undeniably, during these times, one is still in some ways tied down to that previous relationship. And this situation does not make you ready to mingle. You might think you want to, but then again this might be just an expression of the bitterness you have from that previous break up.
3. Go out and have fun!
If you are single and ready to mingle, and ready to commit, now it’s time to GO OUT and have FUN. You cannot find a boyfriend if you don’t go out. Meeting new people or going out with old friends or acquaintances increases your chances in finding that boyfriend you desire. Go out and have that exposure. You need exposure! And while you are enjoying your exposure, don’t forget to have fun. This makes the entire process of finding a boyfriend light and pleasurable. Having fun takes away the pressure of your goal and thus will avoid draining your energy in this process.
4. Have that sense of purpose
Never forget your purpose. Don’t lose track of your goal of finding that boyfriend while having fun. Focus will lead you to your goal. So keep your goal in mind.
5. Be open
While it is common for some to have those standards, free yourself from these. Just be open. Having these standards will most often than not restrict you. Just go out and have fun. Don’t be afraid to meet new people. We often here of stories from people in a successful relationship saying that there partner is not actually the kind of person they thought they can get in love with.
6. Be confident by being yourself
Be proud of who you are. We are most of the time attracted to people who are confident. Be confident of yourself. Confidence will manifest in our actions and in our speech. Actions and speech are two key factors that you need if you want to have a boyfriend.
7. Work on your qualities
Do not pretend who you are not, or don’t even try to be. Work on your qualities. Flaunt who you are. In this way, you will be confident and consistent. And this will allow you to showcase the best of yourself.
8. Be naughty but nice
Flirt a little but don’t lose that feminine touch. You may flirt, but not too much. If you over do it, it might lessen your value in the eyes of your potential boyfriend.
9. Be Patient
Do not rush things. That is why it is imperative that you have fun. Do not be too aggressive. Just relax. If the potential boyfriend asks for your number, you can give it to him, and if he will text or call reply or return the call after a day or two. This will make the other person think of you as a potential catch rather than think of you as someone in the bag already. This is important so that you will know if the guy will pursue you, then now you know he is that interested.
Be sure that you are able to communicate well. Communication is the key to a successful relationship. These are the tips on how to attract a man.