How Do I Meet Women If I Don't Like Bars Or Clubs? - The Man Up Show, Ep. 128

August 11, 2017 2 min read

How Do I Meet Women If I Don't Like Bars Or Clubs? - The Man Up Show, Ep. 128

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Once a nerdy, skinny professor of Asian philosophy who couldn’t hold a conversation to save his life, David is now director of Aura Transformation Corp., and a world renowned dating and life coach. Dr. Tian has been featured in international media, including AXN, Cosmopolitan, Psychology Today, as well as co-hosting a radio show on national radio and a weekly dating advice column in a national newspaper in Singapore. Formerly a professor at the National University of Singapore, Dr. Tian is actively researching, speaking, and publishing in the areas of philosophy and psychology.

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David Tian: Boom! Stop. In Episode 128 of Man Up, I answer the question of: How do I meet women if I don't like bars or clubs?

Masculinity for the intelligent man. I'm David Tian, Ph.D. and this is Man Up! 

Hey! It's David Tian, Ph.D. And for over the past ten years, I've been helping millions of people in over 87 countries attain success in life and love through the application of ancient wisdom and cutting-edge research. And here I am in Ann Arbor, Michigan, visiting family. And I just wanted to show you this beautiful greenery at my sister's place; just beautiful here, gorgeous. And this is the driveway, pretty damn awesome driveway, down into the house. And this is Man Up: Masculinity for the Intelligent Man, Episode 128. 

I'm actually going to go out to the backyard. And I'm answering a question from the private Facebook group. Since we're here, I'm going to start the question and then I'll just keep walking as I go to the backyard, answer the question. Hope it's not too shaky. 

Question from Jonathan in the private Facebook group. He says, "I'm finding myself getting anxious on Friday and Saturday nights. I feel as if I should be out somewhere at some social thing even if I had been out during the week. I really want to meet more women," he says, "And I'm happy with casual hookups or relationships, but I can't seem to think of anywhere to meet them that isn't a bar." 

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